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After years of staying home to raise six children, Maggie’s world was upended when her husband began restricting her access to family finances. He slashed the household budget below what they needed, cut off the family credit card, and started hiding savings accounts she used to be able to view.
Maggie, who lives in Atlanta, shared her story on a recent episode of “The Ramsey Show,” asking, “I’m trying to find out if the way my husband is treating me financially is considered abusive or if it’s acceptable and what I should do.”
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For over 20 years, Maggie has been financially dependent on her husband. She doesn’t work outside the home, having focused entirely on managing the household and raising their children. But over the past year, her husband began making drastic decisions without her input. He cut off her access to the family credit card and reduced their household budget to below what they actually needed, forcing them to drain their savings.
Even worse, Maggie said he hid the family’s savings accounts. “I [used to] see them through a budgeting app, but now I can’t,” she explained. When she questioned him, he sent her a message saying that because she wasn’t ready to talk to him, he made financial decisions on his own.
Hosts George Kamel and Jade Warshaw didn’t hesitate to call it what it is: financial abuse. “This guy is 100% controlling, and that’s 100% a financially abusive situation,” Warshaw said. “If you’re home taking care of the kids but you’re not allowed access to money that it takes to do such work, then what are we even doing here?”
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Maggie said her name is still on the joint bank account, but she doesn’t have a debit card tied to it. Kamel told her to go to the bank immediately and get one so she could access the money safely without using a credit card that he could later weaponize.
She also revealed that her husband had asked her to open a credit card in her own name two months prior, and is now telling her to use it instead. But he also threatened to ruin her credit if she overspent. “Now I feel really nervous to use that credit card at all,” she said.
Maggie also shared that she has recently started asserting her independence with the help of a therapist. She described standing her ground more often and refusing to be berated, which triggered her husband’s punitive financial behavior.
“You’re just not in a financially safe or secure environment,” Warshaw said directly. “Therefore, your kids are not either.”
When Maggie asked if it was wrong for her husband to keep part of his income out of their shared account, Kamel was frank. “My wife stays at home,” he said. “She has full access and transparency into everything that we do. There are no hidden accounts. There’s no mine and hers.”
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Both hosts told Maggie to start protecting herself financially. That included depositing personal checks and gifts into an account she controls. “At this point, you’re protecting yourself because I don’t know if this marriage is going to survive,” Kamel said.
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Maggie ended the call still hopeful her husband would change. But Kamel offered a reality check. “I’m not a betting man,” he said. “But I’m betting he’s not going to change tomorrow and just go, ‘Well, I had a revelation. I’ve decided to give you full access to the accounts and be transparent for the rest of my life.’”
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